Christopher
Bartling
I
was born in Memphis in 1920, the second of six children of African-American
parents. We were pretty poor in money, but rich in love. My father died of
prostate cancer when he was 82. |
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0-19 years We were a happy family. We worked hard and played hard
and ate well (lots of barbequed beef and pork, heaps of French fries-the
works!). Despite
my parents’ love and attention, I grew up a little wild. I finished high
school, but I started drinking when I was teenager and never really stopped.
I got a job as a laborer on the railroad after I graduated form high school
and never worked for anyone else. |
10-39 years I
settled down outside of Memphis and had a comfortable life. I still drank
pretty heavily on the weekends, but it never interfered with my working. In
fact, by now, I was making my own moonshine liquor and handing it out or
selling it to my friends. I almost never went to a doctor and probably didn’t
eat that well, living alone as I did. My friends used to say I needed a wife
to take care of me, but I liked the bachelor’s lifestyle. |
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40-59 years When
my mother died of a heart attack (I was 42 at the time), I felt kind of alone
in the world. I had brothers and sisters, but I didn’t see them often. So one
day, I decided to get myself a dog. It was a good thing-the dog kept me
company on the weekends and waited patiently all day for m to come home and
play with her after work. I never was much for exercise (as a laborer, I
figured I got plenty when I worked), but I started taking long walks with the
dog. Those were good times. The doctor even said that’s probably why my heart
was so strong. |
60+ years I
retired the railroad the day I turned 65. Retirement was pleasant- I spent
most of my days puttering in my garden and playing with my still and
experimenting with different kinds f brews. They
found the cancer when I was 75 years old. I started to loose weight and I had
some pains in my abdomen, so I went to see the doctor. She said I had
pancreatic cancer, pretty far along, and there wasn’t much they could do for
me. They wanted to put me in a nursing home, but I told them they could keep
their nurses and their treatments: I was going home. I had a good life and it
was time to go, that’s the way it was. Christopher
died eight months after being diagnosed with cancer. He was 76. |